It Bothers Me When…

What bothers you and why?

Angry

It bothers me when someone hits on me. It hadn’t happened for a long time but if I lose weight and managed to get to a hundred pounds, some guys would ask me out. It annoys me and I don’t find it cute when guys just hit on any girls. It only happens when I’m friendly.

Do you ever get hit on?

Not Adventurous

Are you seeking security or adventure?

I’m not much of an adventurous person. I would say I seek security. I like to stay safe. Too much adventure for me, I might get into trouble like the incident where I was at my aunt’s house in Thailand countryside. I visited a neighbor’s house often. But one day, the neighbors weren’t home. I went to their house that day entering the front. Their dog bite my leg! I was bleeding a lot that day and had to get stitches! There is obviously no adventure in the countryside of Thailand. I got bored, then that one day, got bitten by a dog and left some scars.

Adventures are good once in a while. I had many adventure memories in the past. Traveling to USA, got my education there in San Francisco, moved to Salt Lake City and then back here in Thailand.

Would you seek security?

My Dad

If you could host a dinner and anyone you invite was sure to come, who would you invite?

I would invite my dad because he passed away last year in March. I got to spend time with him a lot but I still wish he didn’t passed away this quick. I miss him. I think he would be so happy to eat my cooking.

Would you invite celebrities or friends and family?

Simplicity

What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?

Simple life

To increase comfort in my daily life, I would live simple. Not spending too much money on anything, buy necessities that are on sale such as shampoo, soap, food, clothes that I need. I avoid clutter.

Do you like to live simple?

Daily Activity

What are you most excited about for the future?

Painting

For the future, I’m most excited about painting, drawing and writing a book. These things have been on my mind since 2019. I want to finally get into the habit of writing daily and sketching. I’m a terrible artist but I don’t want that to stop me from creating art.

Do you do things you’re not good at but enjoy doing?

Silence

What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?

Silent woods

For the sake of harmony, I stay silent. Not sure what else I can do. If I had to let go of something maybe it’s social media. I wouldn’t have anything to do if I had to do that. Most of my time I spend surfing the web, reading and writing online. I especially enjoy shopping sites like Etsy, Shopee, WordPress, Tik Tok…

Would you ever go several days without social media?

Never Had A Vacation

Describe your most memorable vacation.

I’ve never had a vacation. But I do have a memorable memory of places I’ve been to. I got to say Salt Lake City, Utah was memorable. I had a lot of fun staying for three months and worked there for a short time. I enjoyed shopping at Wal-Mart and Smith’s supermarket. The weather was the best. I went there during winter around the time it almost stopped snowing.

How was your vacation?

Not Good At Any Subject

On what subject(s) are you an authority?

I can’t say I’m an authority in any subject. I’m not really good at anything. I do have a college degree in cooking, though. I know basic cooking but can’t say I’m an expert. From my understanding to be an authority in a subject, that person has to know the subject very well. Cooking isn’t too difficult but it requires a chef to explain food science and there are food terms that professionals can explain the subject to some who are beginners. The term mise en place means “put in place.” Only students, chefs and French speakers know this term or some who work in a Western kitchen for a long time.

Can you say you’re an authority in a subject even though you don’t know everything about it?

Romance

What’s your definition of romantic?

Valentine flowers

Red roses come to my mind when I think of the word romantic. My definition of romantic are a couple in love, a relationship, two people spending time together at a candlelight dinner, Valentine’s day and etc.

Romantic is intimacy between the two people who are in love for the first time or married and still in love.

Have you ever experienced romance?

Showing Gratitude

How do you express your gratitude?

Sending a message

Here are examples of how I express my gratitude: I show my appreciation by doing the little things like buying them a snack, saying thank you, sending a thoughtful message and giving a phone call.

The reason I said buy a snack for the person who did something for me is so they know I’m grateful for them helping me and I show them that I’m thankful. It’s a little gift to show them I think about them.

When I’m grateful, I always say thank you to them that help me.

My aunt allowed me to stay at her house for five months and she prepared my breakfast for me everyday before I move. I send her messages and call her sometimes asking how she was doing. She send me packages of my stuff and paid for all shipping. I’m grateful for her actions.

How do you show appreciation to someone who did something for you?